Hospitality or War?
What should jump out at me from the online Guardian recently but “Betrayal of hospitality, throughout history, has been given as just cause for murder or war.”
This raises an interesting point about restaurants. Do diners feel murderous if the steak is overcooked or are they more likely to be kill when dissed by a waiter? Is hospitality separate from or integral to the cooking? Is loud music a betrayal of hospitality? I know diners who reach for the steak knife when assaulted by boomboom indie tracks.
Hospitality’s on my mind as I make my way to Trattoria Giancarlo, a Little Italy anchor at Clinton and College for more than two decades. Obviously the owners, the Barato family, have forged enduring bonds with diners. Tonight on the happily chattering patio, I spot a familiar face. Bob Bermann. For more than twenty years, Bermann and Barbara Gordon mastered the high wire act of fine dining. Then Boba on Avenue Road crashed in the recession.
Bob’s not cooking tonight, nor is he a customer. He’s s the maitre d’. Friends ask him wouldn’t he rather be cooking again? Not at the moment, says Bermann who had a brief stint running the Senator diner. Now he’s only too happy to be pinch hitting at Tony Barato’s request. Bob’s a kitchen egghead – he’s analyzing the scene. Boba didn’t fail because of the cooking but because it didn’t reach the new young demographic. Yet here’s Giancarlo riding high on the comfortably middleaged. Could it be that the Baratos’ hospitality is the key?
You’d never pick Bob as a gladhander. But wait a minute. I refer again to the Guardian provocateur, It’s not formal etiquette that fulfils hospitality but “what will make you most comfortable and happy at that moment.” Bob is fanfareless, he lets us pick our table before he unhurriedly moves on to open a bottle of wine for another table. Call it laid back : we call it comforting.
The menu is straightforward and expensive. Greg’s our waiter, jolly and direct. I again touch base with the Guardian. “Critics knock the slack waiter for undermining the chef’s work yet only the most rudimentary lip service is paid to the astonishing importance of what they do in the front line of delivering hospitality.” Tap water, but of course and Greg then says what are we to drink? No wine list. Er, something around $50,, Greg doesn’t blink, just says that prices start at $70. This is the way they do things here.
Refreshing in this age of the over-entitled customer who thinks of a restaurant as a convenience, dishes tweaked on demand. Some restaurants, alas, go along. Not the Baratos. This is their their home. Tony is the guiding force, Eugenia is the executive chef, Jason, the chef. We’re their guests, we’ve dropped the control freak at the door.
In hostly fashion Greg takes me to the wine racks in the honeycoloured private dining room and chooses for us a bottle of Rosso Montelcino ‘08 from Talenti. $70. But what is money when the wine rolls robustly round the tongue with a nice dry finish.
Softened up we dive into the menu. We want to share? Greg presents the chosen antipasti on the same plate. Looks wonderful. Three grilled figs stuffed with herbed cheese, lapped with Modena Balsamic vinegar and honey $14, sweet packages of flavour, with a colourful lobster salad $16 . If only there was more lobster and less croutons.
How big is the fish of the day, we ask, having blanched at a passing steak the size of Texas. Greg soothes us. The Dorado is a middleweight boxer of a fish, but once Greg has expertly filleted it on the plate, it becomes delectable meaty mouthfuls. Once veal was bled white at slaughtertime, but these days the caring butcher lets the calf be its pink self. I’m eating two little rosy noisettes of veal tenderloin $35 which have the tentative flavour of extreme youth. I love the black Venere rice but i think the meat yearns for a compatible potato.
We sample an excellent Portugese goat cheese then absolutely refuse to have anything to do with a molten chocolate cake subdued by caramel – until we taste it. Game over.
We leave, the hospitality riddle solved. No telling where food ends and service starts. Seamless and rare experience. Bravo!
*** for Hospitality. Trattoria Gian Carlo 41 Clinton St.416-533-9619. Not wheelchair accessible. Dinner for two: food plus tax $140


My take on Toronto’s restaurants is in April 2010 Food Arts

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